If
we turn back the pages of history we will
discover that wedding ceremony is one of
the oldest custom and ritual known to mankind
and Indian cultural history also tells us
the same.
According to the verses and hymns on marriages
in the Vedas we get to know that individuals
were considered eligible for marriages after
puberty. Evidences from other scriptures
and Hindu epics reveals that divorce and
remarriages were not permitted in ancient
India. Due to foreign invasions early childhood
marriages became a custom in ancient India.
Earlier references on marriages in the ancient
texts suggest that the Aryans were monogamous.
Even in the epic of Mahabharata the concept
of polygamy and polyandry have also been
found. In the medieval India the custom
of marriage was mandatory for every girl.
The concept of polygamy existed mainly among
the Kshatrias for political reasons. With
the passage of time the simplicity in Indian
wedding is somehow lost as the customs and
rituals became complicated and rigid.
The custom of dowry, which turned out to
be the biggest social evil of our country
gave rise to various problems related to
marriage. Today it has become the biggest
social evil of our country. Marriage is
the most important social event for any
Indian family. The customs and rituals associated
with marriages in India vary according to
the region reflecting the rich and diverse
cultures of India. Indian wedding speaks
of Indian tradition, culture and heritage.
The wedding rituals reflect the true regional
color of India. So next time when you get
an invitation to a wedding ceremony don't
miss it.
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